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Why do people feel they need to be so cruel!?

Sat Aug 23, 2008, 10:13 AM


So I just read a poll, which linked me to a journal of a very large women who posts nude pictures. She was talking about how every time she posts something someone has a negative comment they feel they need to share with her and the latest one she got was "You and your kids need to die!" Her journal actually made me cry because of how deeply it saddened me! Here's the link if your interested in reading it, but don't you dare go and be cruel to her! [link]

Now I felt I needed to write my own journal about this topic because I'm fired up at the moment!!

Why do people feel they need to or deserve the right to negatively comment on someone else's work? I will never understand this! I have NEVER commented nasty to ANYONES work! And I pride myself on that. I may have thought "That person is ugly" or "Wow that person is big" or anything (which in itself makes me feel bad) but it's when that poison comes out of your mouth that you poison the world. Not only the person who you're directing it towards, but also everyone who reads it!

Everyone has their own opinions, but do you think that yours is right?! Do you feel that you have the "power" to judge someone and voice your opinion!? Well guess what! NO! NO YOU FUCKING DON'T!!!! We are all the same on the inside, just trying to survive day by day with all the bullshit we all have to deal with. Why should you add to someone else's misery!? If you don't like what your looking at DON'T FUCKING LOOK!!! It's that simple! Why would you take 5 minutes out of your day to post poison to the rest of the world!?

And I'm sure we've all gotten them! At least the chicks who post pictures of themselves have, and if you say you haven't, you're probably lying! I have! And look how small I am. Whether it's jealousy, or they just don't feel secure about themselves, or maybe they really just don't like the image, why the fuck would you bother saying anything!?

I'm a very insecure person as is! Yea, I have the balls to post nude photos of myself, but honestly it's only because the majority of the comments I receive are positive! If I always got negative comments or the majority were negative, I would stop. I would stop doing something I love because of someone else's opinion. It shouldn't be like that, but it is! And what if I was having a bad day and one person, one negative comment pushed me over the edge and I killed myself because of that one person.

Everyone makes a difference people! Nasty heartless comments hurt! Whether you want them to or not, they hurt! I don't bother to comment back, I just mark them as spam and block them...done. I do stick up for my friends though when I see someone has made a negative comment to them! Because it PISSES ME THE FUCK OFF!!! And if you have something negative to say about this journal GO FUCK YOURSELF!

  • Mood: Furious
  • Eating: cheesy potato bacon stuff
  • Drinking: coke!!

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this is the shitty side of da we see all to often:(
That is really sad :(
Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from lesser minds.

Albert Einstein
Thought this quote fit the situation.
Keep up the great work!
Please PM me a link, I feel the same way you do.

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I read her journal last night myself and was going to mention it myself today!! if anyone is interested in reading this here is the link, [link]

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"and Jesus bought a Jess. And he smiled" untill Mary found out and then all hell broke lose! (but she forgave them once Jess let her steal Erikka's platforms)
This is the woman's journal that I read. [link]

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"REMEMBER SOME PEOPLE ARE ALIVE SIMPLY BECAUSE IT IS ILLEGAL TO SHOOT THEM" :stab:
:laughing: I just sent it to dwingephotography! That's so cool you were gonna do the same!! The word needs to be spread, stop the hate!!

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"REMEMBER SOME PEOPLE ARE ALIVE SIMPLY BECAUSE IT IS ILLEGAL TO SHOOT THEM" :stab:
amen sister! :) I saw it last night from my best friend who watches her and she told me about it

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"and Jesus bought a Jess. And he smiled" untill Mary found out and then all hell broke lose! (but she forgave them once Jess let her steal Erikka's platforms)
Thanks :)

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If I could tell the story in words, I wouldn't need to lug around a camera. ~ Lewis Hine
I agree with you Nikki. I have posted comments in the past that offer how to improve but I don't know if that is considered negative. I know where you are coming from and totally agree. I honor and respect you and your pics and would never post anything negative against you. Don't ever listen to what others negatively comment cause people like myself are here for you and will double and cancel out those icky comments. You should be proud of the way you look to. Love you!

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Have you read about the "Ticking Time Bomb" ? [link]
The only 'negative' thing I ever posted was constructive critique that was solicited by the artists.

Unfortunately I had had two assholes put trash in comments on my stuff. I just blocked them. I don't know them and they don't know me so I don't need to read their shit!

My opinion is that if you don't like something, don't look. One click is all it takes!

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